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Old 05-18-2009, 05:58 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I donīt know of course what happened with the 911 call, and if you feel scared around him at any moment I would say leave! Right now! You should at all times feel safe with the person you love!

At the same time... maybe (just maybe, only you know the truth about this) both of you are a little bit right?

Maybe he is an ass infront of your friends when he is moody, and maybe you overreact to it?

Why does he come with you if he is moody? Would it solve the problem for him not to come whenever he feels like that?

I suggest talking about it at a time when everything is going great. An open discussion where you tell him how you feel and you let him space to tell you how he feels.

Ofcourse, this is all pointless if you feel unsafe with him. If you do, than get out! But since you want to solve it, I guess (I hope) the 911 thing was just a mistake..?
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