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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina  Such a relationship would be below my standards because dishonesty is a huge turnoff for me. I already have two kids and don't want to attract such women into my life just to parent them.
However, I do understand quite well why people cheat. There are more than a dozen different reasons for it. Mira Kirshenbaum has a great book on the subject of cheating. So I might do what I can to raise the woman's awareness of what she's doing and why and challenge her to be truthful with herself and others.
I'm not interested in judging people who cheat behind their partner's back, but I can predict a fairly negative outcome if the pattern continues, so it's a no-brainer not to get involved in that sort of deception. |
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