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Originally Posted by ceegeez  Dear Steve,
I would like to know how you see truth fit in the following situation: Meeting someone you are totally honest with, getting closer, and then finding out that she/he is in another relationship and not telling her or his partner about the relationship with you. Can you continue withouth harming truth?
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Ceegeez, how does it make you feel, this scenario (being in it or imagining it)?
It seems like different people are comfortable with different scenarios, but any form of dishonesty makes me very uncomfortable. If people are going to be polyamorous, great, but to me it seems like honesty is the only way polyamory could really work. No?
I just blogged about some mixed feelings about polyamory here:
Awakening from the Dream: Polyamory - Share your experiences with me!. Interesting, too, because when I'm fearful, honesty becomes more challenging too.