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I had such a bad break up and this may sound stupid and shallow but i helps it also helped a friend of mine whose finance dumped him:
keep in motion. Work out, take long walks, ...
don't worry about not being able to feel sexual or attracted to other women - just realize you're not in a place to do that now - just keep in motion . you can't be depressed and in motion at the same time.
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I don't think that's shallow advice at all. Keeping yourself physically occupied is one of the most easiest ways to get your mind off of what is bothering you. Sitting around, being alone with your thoughts when you're already so vulnerable and irrational is not productive at all.
real_username,
You probably won't be attracted to girls at this point now, but you will become your normal self after a while. Aren't you glad you figured this out now before you bought her a ring or got married to her? Be thankful this happened now. Please be easy on yourself and realize that when you look back on this later, you will appreciate this experience.