I don't see him as clingy. It sounds like he's a great guy. He just doesn't know your boundaries. Why not sit him down and explain you need some "me" time sometimes, and if he sees you (for example) with headphones on, he knows not to disturb you?
Also, why don't you leave your apartment sometimes? If you need "me" time, go to the park and take a walk. Go to the library and read a book.
Maybe he feels like he has to interact with you since you're in his home? Maybe he's also enjoying a 'honeymoon' phase, enjoying all the time alone the two of you now have together?
He sounds like a great guy, and you should enjoy it! It may not last forever, and one day you may wonder why he stopped paying attention to you or why he's not home much. I'm older and now so busy with my life and my guy is so busy with his, that sex is no longer the daily thing. Enjoy it while it lasts!
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