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Originally Posted by MagicalRealist

Basically, it comes down to asking myself, "Do I like this guy? Is he fun to be with? Is there reciprocity (are we both going to enjoy this encounter)? Is he likely to wear a condom, instead of giving me some lame-ass, self-serving excuse for not doing so? If I were to wake up next to him tomorrow would I be cool with it (or would I slip out silently at dawn to avoid him)? Would I readily admit to having slept with him, if asked by my best friend?" If I answer any of those questions with a "No," forget it.

This is really good