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Originally Posted by merveilles  How many of you keep track of how many people you've slept with? Maybe it's just because I'm young but I do (I don't want to feel like a ho). Do a lot of you feel like the number isn't even important?
Also, what determines if you'll sleep with someone? Like do you have a list of standards they have to meet? |
You really should worry more about who you are sleeping with... meaning if that person is very sexually active. Your young so what will happen later is that some people you know now will get sick later, like AIDS. Knowing that you might want to keep up with their names.
As far as standards you have to judge them. I mean your not going to sleep with just anyone, right? I'd make sure you were safe with sex. CONDOMS A MUST! It's really funny to me that there can be an outbreak of "swine flu" and everyone freaks and grabs masks, but AIDS has been around for years and people still don't wear condoms with sex. If he/she has fever blisters on his/her lips, then I wouldn't cause thats a form of herpes. Check him/her out before you have sex. Look at his/her private area before you have sex. If it don't look right then leave. Oral sex has same standards. That's where blisters on mouth fall in... can be transferred.
My advice to you is to not worry about the number of people you have sex with, but to worry who you are having it with.