Its a funny world we live in, where there are double standards between the sexes.
ie If a man is demonised alot more for beating his spouse, than the woman is for beating her hubbie. (in fact most men would think him a wimp for taking it)
A woman is demonised alot more for abandoning her kids, than a man is
In the sex number game, women are demonised alot more for higher numbers than men, even though programs like sex and the city are changing that perception.
Why are men bothered by women with high numbers? Bearing in mind I know alot of guys who would be bothered with more than 10 - 15
Alot of guys, have this warped idea, that if a woman has lets say 50, its because she could not say No to sex, even if she wanted to. When I ask them " could she stop if she desires" they all beleive no. They find it hard to beleive a woman could consciously go through a period of wanting just sex like men do. Its almost like they see it like she was weak-minded and she was roped into it, like subliminal advertising. And they have this fear that if they were to settle down with her, other guys would be able to flick this switch and activate her while he picks up the tab.
I know, we men can be silly.
Its like the thrase " She hasnt had many partners, oh she must be a good gal" How does few sexual partners qualify her as good? She could be an alcoholic, a junkie, she could be manipulative, a lousy mum, but for many guys, low sexual partner number = good girl
