I have got to the bottom of the issue with myself. It is the concept which surrounds the differences between making love and sex. The differences are many. This is the reason i feel cheap when asked to arouse my partner. It requires no emotional connection from him to me. The mood that could be set with words of appreciation or candles hasnt happened. He just wants spontaneous sex which is quite far from the scene although he says he does make love to me. His view of making love is having sex with the one you love. At this stage I can either let him go or have sex with him which doesnt fulfill me in everyway.
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