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Originally Posted by recordrustle  hello
just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on this
i've been going out with this guy and every time he always insists on paying, if i go to pay he always goes "no let me". Then I say we should halve it or take turns but it turns into this "no i'll get it" "no let me" etc.
a couple of the times we've gone out for dinner or whatever, i have paid but he still always wants to.
i think its very nice and generous of him to always want to, and i've asked him why he always wants to pay and he says because he wants to and tells me dont worry about it. but then i worry he's spending a lot.
why does he always want to pay??
am i worrying about it too much?
am i just a modern woman unaccustomed to this? |
Seriously?? Really?? Let him pay! If you want to pay and he says no let me, then let him. If you think he's paying too much, then pick something that doesn't cost money. You are worrying way too much... Enjoy him, there not all like that...