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recordrustle · 05-14-2009, 06:24 AM

hello
just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on this
i've been going out with this guy and every time he always insists on paying, if i go to pay he always goes "no let me". Then I say we should halve it or take turns but it turns into this "no i'll get it" "no let me" etc.
a couple of the times we've gone out for dinner or whatever, i have paid but he still always wants to.

i think its very nice and generous of him to always want to, and i've asked him why he always wants to pay and he says because he wants to and tells me dont worry about it. but then i worry he's spending a lot.

why does he always want to pay??
am i worrying about it too much?
am i just a modern woman unaccustomed to this?

05-14-2009, 06:24 AM	#1 (permalink)
recordrustle Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 63	is it weird for the guy to want to pay for all the dates?? hello just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on this i've been going out with this guy and every time he always insists on paying, if i go to pay he always goes "no let me". Then I say we should halve it or take turns but it turns into this "no i'll get it" "no let me" etc. a couple of the times we've gone out for dinner or whatever, i have paid but he still always wants to. i think its very nice and generous of him to always want to, and i've asked him why he always wants to pay and he says because he wants to and tells me dont worry about it. but then i worry he's spending a lot. why does he always want to pay?? am i worrying about it too much? am i just a modern woman unaccustomed to this?