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Originally Posted by brendannz  Actually this girl said she was new to the city and meeting new people, but I'm still wondering a bit that I went from probably about a minutes conversation to making out.. but I enjoyed it.. but makes me a bit nervous about future meetings.
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Well, kissing is so not a big deal to girls. Most attractive girls have probably kissed hundreds of guys, so it's pretty easy to get a kiss from them.
Not sure why the making out makes you nervous about future meetings...is it the inexperience? I'm fairly sure that if you are reasonably upfront about it, her reaction will really take the edge off of your nervousness methinks.
Just remember that on the extremely highly unlikely she rejects you based on your inexperience, that the rejection isn't the end of the world. You'll eventually find someone who is willing to work with the inexperience. I know several girls who are married who've told me that the first time they had sex with their husbands it was absolutely terrible.
In fact, the first time I had sex with my ex-wife, it was a completely terrible experience. It lasted like 2 minutes (and neither one of us had an orgasm), was in my truck, the position was terrible, we'd had about 3 or 4 failed attempts to even achieve the act of sex (if you know what I am talking about) before that, etc.
I ended up with a 6 year relationship with her, and in time I became really good at pleasing her.
No worries mate. Sexual inexperience (or inexperience in general) is only something that is in YOUR head. The other person isn't focused on your inexperience (unless you are so nervous that it becomes awkward), they are focused on how THEY are appearing to YOU.