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Originally Posted by Leaf  I'm feeling used, betrayed, but I've always know what she was made of. Through all of our relationship, I've always felt more like her father than her boyfriend. The responsability to work things out, to understand and to support was always mine.
This isn't healthy. I know that. As I said, I hate what she's capable of, her character and attitude. But I love her. And, yes, I'd forgive her betrayal, I think. |
You love her? Really? Why? Because she's such a fabulous person when she's not lying to you, cheating on you, emotionally leeching off you or blowing off your dates?
Dude, I don't really think you love her. You're obsessed with her, maybe, or you've convinced yourself that if you can change her then it's because you're worthy of her love. You're desperate for her attention, that's for sure.
But you shouldn't be. You seem like a good guy but she's treating you like cr@p. That's not your problem. It's hers. She just doesn't sound like a particularly pleasant character.
You deserve better. You've already been on and off several times. She's lying to your face right now. I wouldn't be surprised if she knows you know, and she's passive-aggressively trying to make you break up with her, so she doesn't have to feel bad about dumping you.
She's only your first girlfriend. Trust me, there are plenty, plenty more women out there who won't behave like this one. You owe it to yourself to expect more from a partner.