I am happily married in a way that I feel that the relationship is giving me most of the pleasures except what I think I need the most, getting it in bed! I have been wondering for quite sometime to look at a casual relationship outside my marriage to provide me the need that I feel I need... Interestingly this has been discussed mutually and the response I get from my partner is that it is OK to look at "other" options outside... Is it appropriate to sacrifice what I need and wait till that time, it is mutually acceptable to us or is it important that I need to look at my life, how I would like to live...