Thread: Love with Fear
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Old 05-13-2009, 02:17 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Sounds like your needs are being disregarded or minimized. Are you truly in love with him or are you just infatuated with him? Love is a reciprical emotion...infatuation is where one person is more interested than the other.

The thing you need to decide for yourself is whether you can live with a person who obviously has commitment issues.

I think it's time to set some boundaries. Stand up for what you want, and if he is unwilling to give you what you want, then realize that you are simply incompatible and find someone who is willing to give you the things you want without you having to fight/beg for it.
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