Thank you all for your replies. I tend to give the benefit of the doubt. I thought it was actually me searching for a way out of this relationship and creating the drama. But reality is I wouldnt have stopped any sexual advances and ditto on the personal cleanliness. The part I played was allowing it to go on and the lack of patience in my delivery to him surrounding any talk of sex. That was a huge turn off for him as he wanted me to spend time finding out what turned him on. Thanks again for all your replies
|