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Originally Posted by MartinP  Hi BlueDragon,
I agree that focussing purely on the present moment is the ideal, since much of the hesitation we experience is related to "what ifs".
But what if we reversed the question and asked:
Maybe your hesitation is trying to tell you something? Maybe there is a good genuine reason why you shouldn't be doing it?
What is stopping you from taking the next step?
Is it a real fear, that is perfectly reasonable?
On the other hand, if your fear is based on a "what if" about something that isn't likely to happen or is not actually that significant, then you need to think about why it is causing you hesitation.
And remember, the brave person doesn't eliminate fear, they just act in spite of fear. |
yeah, yeah, of course, that's all true! and it's so easy to just Generalize this across the entire
spectrum of human achievements, right
Then, the 'moment-of-truth' arrives, lol -> is she gonna
skate... this move NOW yet, or what
fear of face-planting, yet again! - are our shock-absorbers tensile
enuf??, maybe Focusing on the next... move after this one, is the Ticket to success...
