Ok, I am in a place where we haven’t spoken for 2 weeks… I know the time isn’t right yet, I am still working on my internals (as Viking says
) and since he hasn’t made contact yet either, I suppose I send the signals “I want some time-out”. But I am doing LoA stuff everyday regarding us getting together, I intend to be with him but I have erased all the needy feelings. (Apart from some thoughts and worries that I am distancing myself from him now… since lately we had been talking every day as friends.)
Well, I am ok with the situation, but what about people asking me about him? My friends, my sisters… At first I told a friend of mine that we aren’t speaking now and he is with another girl, but at some point in the future we will be together – I know it. She gave me a disbelieving look and didn’t comment. From then on I just reply that me and him... we don’t have communication... and my friend/sister exc. goes on like “at last, this situation wasn’t good for you, time to get over him!”
My question is… does talking about your intention influence any outcome? I mean, I still go on intending and visualizing, but when I talk about it with people who know about the situation and are negative towards him, I feel I am losing some power over the matter. That my energy, instead of being directed to my intention, is wasted. Or even worse, is directing the possible outcome to the opposite direction
