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Originally Posted by SimonaRich Well he wanted to find out what food I like so that he would know where to take me. I texted that I am vegetarian so he listed some restaurants and then he texted wondering why I did not reply and then he again texted me if I have changed my mind and then he texted me to say that maybe I did not receive his messages etc etc  |
Just to offer something in support for the poor guy... maybe you are just on different levels regarding the use of texts?
I always reply directly and the converstation doesnŽt stop until on or the other says "ok iŽll see you then, speak you you later etc.".
Maybe it is just all some sort of silly miscommunication?
If somebody would reply to me as you did I would react the same as the guy.
And no, I am not needy, insecure, stalker etc. I just have different standerds when it comes to holding a converstation on texts. Not bad, not good, just different.
You can so easily misinterpret things that are not said in real life but just in texts (in messages or on forums etc.).
I would give the guy a chance. What doe you have to loose? At worst you have a boring diner that you can cut short anytime, at best you find the man of your life.
Kind off risky to let all that go just because there was a miscommunication?