Leroy, sometimes when people are grieving there is nothing you can say. When you have the strength, be there for your mom. Even if it means to go and sit with her and say nothing, it will mean a lot to her someday.
I would recommend getting counseling. My mom took my brothers and I to counseling after my dad left (I know, not even close to the same) and it helped more than anything else to get through that tough time.
If money is tight I know a lot of pastors and churches have people on staff to help people through tough situations.
I wish you the best--
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