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Originally Posted by liquid5170 
anyways, the question here is what should i expect from her in the next few days, weeks, months to come... and what she is really trying to say to me?
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Here is what she is trying to say to you:
"Liquid5170, I know you are the perfect kind of guy for me and my family loves you, but I'm just not as into you as I know I should be. So, what I am going to do is go out and date a few jerks for a while just to see what I am missing, and then when I realized what I had with you I'll come crawling back to you and apologize."
She, in other words, is filling your head with garbage (that she loves you so much and all that) to keep you on the hook. Think about it, if she loved you so much, then why is she breaking up with you? I know that sounds harsh, but listen to her actions man. Her actions speak much louder than anything that comes out of her mouth.
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Originally Posted by liquid5170 what is she doing? |
Keeping you on the string while she experiments a little/searches for someone better than she might think is out there.
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Originally Posted by liquid5170 it almost feels like self sabotage.... everyone says they wont last and see's her coming back. is that what i should anticipate? |
You can drive yourself crazy with that. Yeah, she might come crawling back. She might not. Thing is, you are broken up and need to focus on getting over her instead of wondering if she'll ever come back.
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Originally Posted by liquid5170 how should i best play this out? let me be more clear, i really do want her in my life and be with her... (i know most of you are shaking your heads no already, but please humor me) |
You need to resolve that this is COMPLETELY over and there is nothing you can do about. Then you need to ACCEPT that it's over.
And then, you need to go out and date like 5 other girls so that you realize that the girl you lost probably isn't that special. You've just put her up on a pedastal in your mind.