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Originally Posted by Grakyl  and gave her an STD. |
Strike one. (maybe that sounds insensitive but if she has an STD and you don't it's gonna make the sex life pretty tough to deal with)
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Originally Posted by Grakyl The other day she was being very secretive |
Strike two.
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Originally Posted by Grakyl and I saw she had a text from him. |
How nice of him to follow up with a text after raping her.
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Originally Posted by Grakyl The next day I asked her if she talked to him and she kept saying she promised she didn't but when I told her I saw the text she admitted it. |
Strike three. Do you really want to be with a liar and a sneak?
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Originally Posted by Grakyl She says she really can't understand why she needs to talk to him. She says she loves me so much and loves talking to me but there's things he understands more. She also said he's been ****ing with her head for a couple years. She said she hates him for it and doesn't have feelings for him anymore but she can't stop talking to him. |
Actions, man. Don't ever listen to a word that comes out of a woman's mouth. Pay attention to what she DOES and how she RESPONDS. Actions speak much louder than any words can ever say. Forget what she says (we've already established that she's a liar), what are her actions telling you?
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Originally Posted by Grakyl Right now she's pissed at me cus I was mad she lied to me but I had no idea... She told me she still loves me and will get over it but I have no idea what to do... |
So, she's mad at you for being mad at her for lying? Are you kidding me? She's walking all up and down all over you and you, like a puppy dog, are letting her.
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Originally Posted by Grakyl EDIT - He'll say things like "You'll come back" and things that really bothers me. She says she would never and I trust her. She doesnt wanna talk about it and I try so hard not to because it kills me. I just want to help her and be here for her. She means so much to me. Also the past month or so we havent had sex much which is weird but when we did she kept telling me how much she was in love with me. We had a pregnancy scare right before that so I hope thats it. |
I would hope that you aren't having sex at all, considering that she has an STD (unless you have one too and it doesn't matter).
Find yourself someone who doesn't have one, someone who won't lie to you and manipulate you and someone who isn't still wanting her ex-boyfriend for sex while she uses you for her emotional needs and to be treated right.
Man up, and tell her to take a hike. There are far better women for you to love out there than this manipulative girl.