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Originally Posted by inverse Paranoid  Right now, all you're doing is describing the situation.
First, figure out what you want. Then ask yourself why you want you want. If you don't know what you want, do you want to know what you want? Then ask yourself why you want or don't want to know that. This will help you move towards the essence of what you desire, even if the actual external circumstances seem unattainable.
If you want to feel happy in your relationship, you may not be able to wave a magic wand and make it happen overnight. But you can think about the things in your life right now that you feel happy about and appreciate those. If you want to feel loved and worthy, then think about people who love you and hold you in high esteem.
The whole idea is to reconnect yourself with your ability to feel how you want to feel. When you do that you reclaim your power over a situation that was seemingly preventing you from feeling how you wanted to feel. Then you'll feel much stronger in asking for what you want, both from yourself and your girlfriend. |
I want it to be just me and her like it was in the beginning. We were so happy it was awesome. But I cant keep feeling like this you know?