i've read a few forums where they say that the best way for any decent chance for the girl to realize what she had was to shut her out and have no contact until they start chasing you.
the conflict i have with that is that she's NEVER actually chased any guy after she's broken up with them. ... well that and she's also cried to me telling me she's never had a boyfriend has great as me even though we fight a lot.
i really do want her back and since she does have abandonment issues, the last thing i want to do is "abandon" her... cause she'll just think it's normal in her life that all things she loves will leave.
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