[Grakyl]

Alright I've been with this girl for a little while and I love her with all my heart. She means everything to me. A couple weeks ago she told me her ex, who still wants to be with her and always tries talking to her, raped her and gave her an STD. When she said that she said she felt like she had to be with him but since I knew she felt a lot more comfortable. She tried telling him to leave her life but he never does.

The other day she was being very secretive and I saw she had a text from him. The next day I asked her if she talked to him and she kept saying she promised she didn't but when I told her I saw the text she admitted it. She says she really can't understand why she needs to talk to him. She says she loves me so much and loves talking to me but there's things he understands more. She also said he's been ****ing with her head for a couple years. She said she hates him for it and doesn't have feelings for him anymore but she can't stop talking to him.

Right now she's pissed at me cus I was mad she lied to me but I had no idea... She told me she still loves me and will get over it but I have no idea what to do...

EDIT - He'll say things like "You'll come back" and things that really bothers me. She says she would never and I trust her. She doesnt wanna talk about it and I try so hard not to because it kills me. I just want to help her and be here for her. She means so much to me. Also the past month or so we havent had sex much which is weird but when we did she kept telling me how much she was in love with me. We had a pregnancy scare right before that so I hope thats it.