You need to leave. She has had issues with bulemia and is still having problems with and she does not intend to get any help for herself. At any time, she can go back to those bulemic behaviors and things will be much worse for her. You said she is a damaged person. She does not want to work through the issues from her past. If you stay, it can only get worse from here. I have been where is - except I didn't have bulemia but everything else I connect with. I agree with the othere posters, you need to look inside yourself and discover why you were attracted to a girl who is unhealthy. Otherwise this pattern will repeat.
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