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Old 05-10-2009, 08:34 AM   #9 (permalink)
spirit4711
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@Simona, the guy looks needy to me, which is a turn off.

I am curious though, is there a reason you didn't answer his 2nd text? Not that it's bad, but if you look from his point of view:

1) I'll take a risk and send a text to that cool lady Simona
2) hurrah! she answers!
3) let's send a 2nd text - I like that gal!
4) no answer - now what? why no answer?

At this point he took the wrong path by sending too many texts but you can't blame him for trying. What else would have worked for you? Trying another text a day or so later? Or waiting for you to start texting again? And how was he supposed to know?

I definitely get his frustration of you not answering. It's not that he is entitled to an answer, but maybe more that he doesn't understand why you don't answer anymore. I've felt that not knowing frustration too many times myself .

Please text me your answers
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