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Originally Posted by ceegeez  Dear Steve,
I would like to know how you see truth fit in the following situation: Meeting someone you are totally honest with, getting closer, and then finding out that she/he is in another relationship and not telling her or his partner about the relationship with you. Can you continue withouth harming truth?
Thank you! |
This situation is not polyamorous, but cheating. You can not continue and have the relationship be honest, for it was founded on dishonesty by one party. If it was me, I'd cut Mr./Ms. Lying-to-partner free and move on. 1) because of the potential drama factor. And 2) because if they are lying to their primary partner about you why would you think they would be honest with you?