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Originally Posted by cylon  Is someone going to answer my question why women feel the need to list all of their qualities like this? |
Why do you say "women", as if all women do that sort of thing? Many (most) do not.
As for why some do, I would guess their identity is overly attached to how they look--which will probably cause some pain as they age, since looks always fall away. They have probably been taught that they will be valued based on their looks--which I would blame on the type of man who gives preferential treatment to conventionally attractive women.
That's why I don't feel bad for a lot of the supposedly "nice" guys who can't get a date with a conventionally attractive woman--I think they might find more success if their criteria were a little less vapid. They're going after the stereotypically attractive woman because the whole thing is about ego, not genuine attraction and connection. (Of course there are also nice guys with normal taste who need to develop social skills; I'm not talking about them).