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Originally Posted by newsbone  |
ha ha ha
someone above said why "marriage"?
i think thats in the belief system of the OP and..shes seems to be oblivious to the fact that that could be the reason for her unhappiness.
to the OP:-there are no guarantees in life.
marriage aint one..seriously. anything can happen.
why dont you tell us about this relationship?is it fulfilling (except the marriage bit) does it answer your needs (except marriage)
what exactly about marriage do you like...see! companionship you got,youre already spending your life with someone youre happy with (cept marriage
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you CAN be committed ,sometimes more ,when you are not married.you can choose to have kids even if youre not married.you can choose to grow old together too.plan things tigether too.
what will marriage be getting that you cant already have?
explore your belief system.
or rather the relationship.coz this might just be an excuse for something lacking in the relationship itself.
if not.then get out of here..fully knowing..that there are 'still' no guarantees.
n btw huccome you hung on for years?? in the hope that hed want to marry?
i dont know you at all but "need for SECURITY" seems to be jumping out from nearly every sentence youve written.
do look back to see if the choices youve made in the past carry the 'safe' tag.
not judging you or nething.just want to help you explore whats going on in the inside.