Holistic Star, it sounds like you've got a lovely, loving supportive partnership going there. That's wonderful.
But what you've gone through isn't at all the "letting yourself go" that some posters have objected to. "Letting yourself go" would be if, out of laziness or passive aggression or willful disobedience, you just said to hell with it and stopped caring about your own health, fitness and appearance.
You are a strong woman who is determined to be vital and well and a good partner, despite shocking and very upsetting challenges. Your husband is also very lucky to have you!
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