Lol - well we have completely derailed this thread.
So - Attraction. Where were we?
I said earlier that we attract the parts we need to heal in ourselves, and we are often fascinated by people that embody aspects that we would like to be.
So I get drawn to very confident opinionated people, because I needed to heal the part of me that was comfortable expressing her own opinions.
However I was often fooled by what appeared to be confidence and strong opinions, that when you dug into it was actually insecurity covered up by a mask. My lesson has been to identify and express authentic power rather than arrogance.
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