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Old 05-08-2009, 08:10 PM   #66 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by cylon View Post
Women are attracted to the men who provide drama.
That's the myth that I was talking about that is perpetuated by the insecure sects of the PUA crowd. So we aren't agreeing on this particular point.

It's kind of ludicrous to say that women are attracted to any one particular thing. So much goes into creating that confident, charismatic man that it's hard to pinpoint any one trait and go "aha! THAT'S what women want."

It's much more effective to realize that, as a man, you need to set boundaries with her and be confident with her than it is to think you need to "create drama" for her to be attracted to you. that is called "supplicating" and it's no way to live (and not something someone with self-confident gets caught up in).
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