I'm a senior in high school, and I'm definately struggling in this area. I just recently discovered the community, but to me it doesn't seem morally wrong at all. As long as you are upfront about what you want out of a relationship (whether it be short term or long term) girls can choose whether they are interested or not. Seems a lot more moral then the "get girls drunk" strategy guys in my grade seem to use.
I'm not sure where I stand on putting up an image, or telling stories you have rehearsed ahead of time with girls you just met. I know that my 50 year old uncle always keeps everybody at the dinner table entertained when we have a family reunion, and I've heard him tell the same stories 3 or 4 times. It seems that socially attractive people just tend to do that naturally, so maybe consciously changing that isn't such a bad thing.
I'd love to hear your guys' thoughts, and I know for sure that if you don't have an attractive life (this is where Personal Development comes in) you will not be able to maintain relationships with girls very well.
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