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Originally Posted by Vermilion Sparrow  This is probably one of my main problems in human interaction, period. And I'm a woman. Anyone who shows interest in me at all gets treated like a new best friend/soul mate, if only for a few minutes before they start to think I'm weird and make excuses to leave.  |
It depends on the context. I've had "extremely beautiful and intelligent women" attach themselves to me way too soon and it is kind of creepy. I can understand why that sort of behavior is such a turn off.
But, admittedly, it is nice to have someone just bathe you in attention. The problem is you know it's not the real you, it's the idea of you that the person is so attracted to. People like to be seen for the real people they are, not just fantasy figures that can save you from yourself.