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Originally Posted by MidasGirl  You do make some really good points James. I understand PUA from the perspective of helping a guy who never got laid to help him do so. That said, I just think it's nothing to brag about. You got laid so what? You got laid by the most attractive girl in the group, so what? So that means now he's worth more than he was yesterday? Ya know.........
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Yeah, I get annoyed with those guys too. The PUA community tends to take insecure, overly compensating nice guys and turn them into insecure, overly compensating jerks....the result? the new "jerk" gets more sex than he used to. Big deal.
True PUAs, however, recognize that there is more to it than just surface treatment. The truly being attractive and changing from the insecure lifestyle involves a massive amount of introspection and core changing of beliefs, which them naturally bubbly to the surface over time.
The problem? It's far easier and quicker to just learn some tricks to get laid than it is to undertake changing yourself at the core level.