[MidasGirl]

Excellent post. I never quite "got" the whole PUA thing, honestly. Attraction is soooo natural. Although I call myself a hottie, I'd never call myself a 10 and yet I've never had any problems attracting guys in my life. My current boyfriend has studied the whole DeAngelo thing back to back and is very adept at causing women to be attracted to him. He probably would admit he would not have been immediately attracted to me, were it not for the fact that we talked on the phone for 3 hours every night for 3 months before we ever met. Relax people, it's as natural as finding the right puppy for you. And men, quit kidding yourselves. There's only one Angelina Jolie, or whoever else your fantasy 10 is. Meanwhile, incredibly attractive women are all over the place, if you'd only get a grip and let attraction happen naturally instead of placing your value on the fact that you banged a super attractive woman!