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Old 05-08-2009, 01:49 PM   #5 (permalink)
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My personal thoughts are more about her unwillingness to share any details with you about what happened.

But first of all, you have to remove the frame of "investigator" from you interactions with her. She's not going to tell you anything if she thinks you are hounding her for details. So your mission (should you choose to accept it lol) is to communicate in a way with her to where you aren't pressing her for details, but you are moving the conversation towards what happened with her.

She told you some of what happened, which is good. Your job is to make her comfortable enough to tell you the rest. Women are funny like that, it seems.
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