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Old 05-08-2009, 06:43 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Is it right to ask her what went on? I feel uncomfortable that she is obviously leaving out details. I don't know how to go about this. Any advice? Leave it alone? Simply bring it up and ask?
You can ask whatever you like, she's not obliged to answer. Whatever her reasons, that's what it is.

It might be valuable to tell her what you feel about she shutting you out. Still doesn't oblige her to tell you anything.

What are your beliefs about the relationship you're having with her? Is total honesty a 'must'? Is it compulsory to share everything that happens in your lives? Is there room for privacy?
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