When you wake up in the morning and you have a boner, did you think that boner into existence?
When men are having vivid non-sexual dreams, they get erections.
Likewise, some women have conditioned their husband to become physiologically aroused.
Think about Pavlov's dog. Pavlov trained his dog to salivate - a totally unconscious response - in response to a bell.
What do bells and salivation have in common? Nothing. Pavlov conditioned his dog to have an autonomic reaction.
This is the same thing that happens in cases of prolonged domestic abuse where the woman is the abuser. She will abuse her husband and through various Pavlovian tactics (usually carried out unconsciously) he will eventually respond by having an erection. The case where she orders him to get aroused is unusual. Usually what happens instead is the man is unconsciously trained to become aroused everytime his wife gets violent.
The wife gets violent, beats him up, he gets aroused, and she rapes him. It's not a choice on his part, he is psychologically tormented and conditioned over years. Just like women will have orgasms during rape, the man has an ejaculation despite the fact he didnt want to have sex with his abuser.
Oftentimes these women are stronger and bigger than their husbands, not to mention meaner. It is a lot more common than is acknowledged and it is very much a taboo subject.
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