just read that link....that just solidified for me that I'm not willing to sacrifice who I am for a relationship. As long as we are in our current way of being together, we build separately, we live separately, we exist separately.
I don't shack up so that's not an option for me. And, we currently lead separate lives even though we share some aspects of our lives with each other. But, there are some things which do not get shared, especially on his end. And, I am very serious about building something amazing with someone. I'm not going to sit around and wait on him to recognize that the blessing he is missing out on is larger than his fears. He doesn't see it that way apparently.
So, if there's anyone out there who has reclaimed their own path and purpose after years of pretending otherwise, please come in and share with me. Was it easy once you faced the truth? Was it difficult? Did it turn out to be the right decision? How did you do it?
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