If she "let herself go..."
Short answer: I'd probably have to let her go too. Self-respect is a very important quality to me, I probably couldn't stay in a relationship where she demonstrated a lack thereof. Temporary slipping that could be explained by some other problem is a different matter.
But yes, aside from how it relates to self-respect, physical fitness/attractiveness is important to me, especially as it relates to sex.
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