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Ribbles · 05-08-2009, 12:18 AM

About a month ago, my girlfriend went to her friend's party. She's known the guy since highschool and she's 21, they've only been friends and I actually somewhat know him as well.

The day after the party she told me that she slept in her car for about 3 hrs to sober up from drinking because she felt bad if she slept at some guys house even if it's just on his couch. I said ok i'm glad she's fine. About a week ago she told me that they haven't talked since and he hasn't tried to contact her and he must be mad that she slept in the car or something. I asked her if he was trying to put the moves on her which made her uncomfortable enough to leave and she said no and kinda switched topics.

Since then it's kinda been bugging me for some reason. I just want to know why because you wouldnt just be mad at someone for sleeping in their car unless he was trying to make a move on her and she rejected him.

Is it right to ask her what went on? I feel uncomfortable that she is obviously leaving out details. I don't know how to go about this. Any advice? Leave it alone? Simply bring it up and ask?

05-08-2009, 12:18 AM	#1 (permalink)
Ribbles Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 25	Need advice About a month ago, my girlfriend went to her friend's party. She's known the guy since highschool and she's 21, they've only been friends and I actually somewhat know him as well. The day after the party she told me that she slept in her car for about 3 hrs to sober up from drinking because she felt bad if she slept at some guys house even if it's just on his couch. I said ok i'm glad she's fine. About a week ago she told me that they haven't talked since and he hasn't tried to contact her and he must be mad that she slept in the car or something. I asked her if he was trying to put the moves on her which made her uncomfortable enough to leave and she said no and kinda switched topics. Since then it's kinda been bugging me for some reason. I just want to know why because you wouldnt just be mad at someone for sleeping in their car unless he was trying to make a move on her and she rejected him. Is it right to ask her what went on? I feel uncomfortable that she is obviously leaving out details. I don't know how to go about this. Any advice? Leave it alone? Simply bring it up and ask? Last edited by Ribbles; 05-08-2009 at 12:28 AM.