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Originally Posted by Brutha  That's no valid excuse for not speaking with him about your desires and being clear with him about what you want.
You allow him to avoid the issue and that's your choice.
If you are happy with that choice that's fine but if you aren't it's your responsibility to be clear about what you want and actually having that talk. Getting tired of waiting to be proposed to..... any advice? might be a thread that's interesting to you. |
Thanks, Brutha. I'm not blaming him. I blame myself for ever compromising. I know he means well and I don't think he's out to use me or anything. But we don't want the same things. And, it's time we stopped pretending that fact isn't the 800 lb gorilla in the room.
I really appreciate the link. Going over to check it out.