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Originally Posted by Brutha  If you are perfectly clear about what you want and tell your husband: "We have to talk. I want to get married" instead of hinting it you won't allow him anymore to avoid the issue. |
Thanks Brutha.
He knows. He knows who I am. He knew who I was when he was spending YEARS pursuing me. He literally pursued me for several years before I gave in. He knew what kind of woman I was then. He even went so far as to pretend, early in the relationship, that we would be getting married...so far as to ask me my ring size and preferred style. When it became clear that I was in love with him for sure, he cooled off in the marriage department.
He knows who I am. It's part of the reason he fell in love with me. He's just hoping that I am going to remain weak and compromising so that he can have his cake and eat it too. It's all my fault. I'm not even blaming him. Compromising who you are is never a good idea.