*HUGS*
It sounds like this guy has some inner issues going on. His problems are not your fault and nothing you could/should do will keep him at this point. The best you can do is look out for you.
What do you want?
Are you happy with a guy who suddenly doesn't love you or want to commit, but he wants to hang onto you so he doesn't have to face being alone...? It might be really hard for you to think about right now, but it may be better to officially break it off and move on. If he gets his crap together later on, he can contract you, and try to win you back... but you don't need to be waiting around for someone like that.
The odd behavior could be anything for him hooking up with girls online to having a real affair to mental illness to drug abuse... who knows why he suddenly lost interest. Him suddenly being secretive is a red flag. Whatever the reason, you deserve better than this.
The whole hickey thing is another red flag. Who cares if he got it from a girl or a guy or a farm animal, he has no business letting others suck on him. His behavior is inappropriate. Throw him out!
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