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Obsessive to say the least, this attitude and behaviour stems from a lack of self-esteem and low self-confidence. I truly hope you find the best from your situation, but you will fail to do so unless your work on yourself first.
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Obsessive, sure, but this came out of the blue, and she's with child, so cut her some slack.
Just try to calm down a bit, Jess. Your bf
does sound like he's in denial, but we can't really judge from here. There is a certain type of woman who is subconsciously attracted to closeted gay dudes, so you might want to check that out and see if that gives you any insight. What's most important now is that you chill (for your child's sake) -- just take it one day at a time, maybe read some Eckhart Tolle, and get out of CSI mode (and get yourself tested for STDs!).
Good luck!