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I think that from posts you have made in the past, and from this post today, that its pretty clear that your boyfriend is gay and in denial. |
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If I were your boyfriend, I think I would want my best friend to help me through this time by not being judgmental about my sexuality and by letting me go with love.
It seems like he is afraid to leave the security of the life he has with you, but knows in his heart that he is not the man he is pretending to be.
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Boyfriend aside, you have your own issues which will undermine this and every relationship that will proceed this one.
Do you think this is healthy behaviour?
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It then led me to look thru his phone
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needless to say I was a nervous wreck calling the police and the emergency rooms--
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I am still in CSI mode right now so I call the gay club and ask--
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Obsessive to say the least, this attitude and behaviour stems from a lack of self-esteem and low self-confidence. I truly hope you find the best from your situation, but you will fail to do so unless your work on yourself first.