Hi Jess~
Just wanted to drop a line of loving support to you now in your time of distress. How are you holding up? Are you doing things to take care of yourself and your unborn little one? I hope that you are.
I also wanted to remind you that from the sound of things, this break up is not about you and that you shouldn't feel like you are somehow "to blame".
I think that from posts you have made in the past, and from this post today, that its pretty clear that your boyfriend is gay and in denial.
It would be my guess, as a stranger only hearing small bits of the story, that he is a very, very confused and unhappy man as well.
If I were your boyfriend, I think I would want my best friend to help me through this time by not being judgmental about my sexuality and by letting me go with love.
It seems like he is afraid to leave the security of the life he has with you, but knows in his heart that he is not the man he is pretending to be.
I know that you will get through this painful time Jess. Please take lots of tender care of yourself right now, call on your friends and family for support too!
Wishing you love,
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