Take this as a learning lesson, if a girl isn't interested in you let her go. In order to attract women better you need to be able to be fine without ever happens with them. If you are friends, great. If you end up together, cool. If nothing at all happens you should have the same reaction.
If you let go of liking her in that way it wouldn't bother you in the least if your friend is dating her. Him backing off because you called dibs on her first is the very reason she doesn't like you in that way. You are overly attached and possessive of a girl that just wants to be friends with you.
If I was interested in a girl that didn't like me I would let her go easily because I know I'm not for everyone. I would even encourage her to date my friend if I thought they were a better match.
The big mistake that you are making is thinking that the guy caused the girl to not like you. If your friend wasn't around she would still not be attracted to you. Learn to let the situation go and you will be much happier off ( and attract more women who are a better fit for you)
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